Sometimes I really wonder.. how the hell did the people at the top manage to trick everyone into believing the nonsense about women that’s currently out there. There’s so much of that garbage out there that I don’t even know where to begin writing this. Should we start with common beliefs that people got all wrong? Or maybe with the red pill new age bullshitters that think they’ve figured it out yet fell into another illusion.

Let’s do it in a fun easy way. Let me first introduce to you some of the common beliefs people have about women. You try to think to yourself whether you agree with it or not.

Don’t automatically assume you’re wrong if you believe it.

Common Beliefs

1. You need to be tall and handsome to get a beautiful girl
2. You need to have a lot of money to be with a beautiful woman
3. Women only do sex to please men
4. Love is fate

Let’s look at those one by one.

You need to be tall and handsome

This is complete bullshit. Looks do help you out, by giving you some bonus points however nowadays it’s promoted as “Either you’re a chad or an incel” online.

In the underground seduction community, one of the veterans there was one guy who was by all standard not attractive. Great guy but he himself said he had a face shaped like an old metal bowl from the soviet era.

This motherfucker banged 9s and 10s. And even showed video proof to encourage the newbies to go out and date.

So get rid of this belief, because if you believe it you’ll experience it. Your brain will start to reinforce it by thinking your incapability with women stems from your looks.

Keep yourself well groomed and clean. That’s important.

I’m not rich enough – all women are after money

I’ve first hand have seen women take in guys without money, even the depressed ones. Have you heard about the women in France that just have guys without work living at their homes for free? No? Perhaps you should visit France someday.

I should elaborate here. The issue is that lack of money/resources usually means lack of ambition and some character traits , which are important for the majority of women.

If you’re really a lazy person that has no goals in life, that’ll be your problem. But if you’re an ambitious hard working person with some goals, don’t worry.

I personally know one guy who earns 20,000 euros per month. He also has the looks. But he’s personality is shit, lack of social skills even though he’s confident he isn’t able to get a girlfriend.

He believes that all women are after money. So he often goes and pays some girls from eastern Europe to go with him on vacation. And still they don’t have sex with him.

I also know a girl who dated a guy who was depressed for 4 years and didn’t have a job she supported him. No he wasn’t good looking or anything, if anything she told me he was a shitty boyfriend. She’s an 8/10 and they’re married now. Maybe love does exist, I leave that to you.

Anyway, my take on it. Money and Women are two separate things, don’t mix them. Sex has always been free. The only thing you should pay for is the pack of condoms you’re using. End of story. Don’t trust mainstream gurus trying to pollute your brain with nonsense.

Women only have sex to please men (Aka: Women don’t like sex)

You’ll often hear some women say “I don’t like sex” and things of this sort. Usually the one saying it either never had sex in her life, or had a bad experience. Because once you get to know enough women you’ll know that a lot of the times women are even more perverted than men lol. There’s not really much to be said here, once you get better with women you’ll find out that they probably love sex more than you, will tire that heck out of you.

Love is fate

This belief is a little problematic to just throw out the trash. Because when it comes to things like fate and destiny we’re entering the spiritual realm a little and that’s beyond the scope of what I’m writing about on this website.

Regardless, if you put all your faith only in belief, chances are you won’t be working hard enough. Most of the “fated love stories” you see are not just like a man met woman, they magically clicked and boom had a happy marriage. No bro, chances are that man worked hard for chasing that girl’s attention (unless he’s a seducer or a pheromone user). And had to go through all the dating game for this. But later you only see the end result “It was fate”.

If you go to the grocery store today and look to the back and see you a beautiful woman, well that might be your fate. But whether it is or isn’t you won’t know unless you approach.

Anyway, have faith in whatever you want but be proactive, assume that you gotta earn it. And by the way, while your waiting for that one true love God has sent you, that doesn’t mean you can’t go on hunting for love and getting some dating experience.