Welcome to the third part of the series ‘Everything You Know About Women Isn’t True’. If you haven’t read the first two parts you can find them here: Part 1 ; Part2

For those who forgot in the first part we’ve talked about how many of the common beliefs such as that you need to be handsome and rich to get a girl are false. In the second part we’ve discussed how women often rationalize things and the truth you receive from the women you meet can be often half truth or something that was ‘true in the moment’ etc.

Hopefully you’ve internalized the knowledge that was written there. Today we’ll tackle something simpler and it’s what women really want and what they think they want.

What Women Says They Want In A Mate

Let’s look at some of the common things women say they want but somehow end up with the opposite type of guy.

• – Someone who can provide (financially)
• – A man that will treat her right
• – A handsome man / a certain appearance
• – A nice friendly person
• – A Feminist supporter (yeah lol)

Before continuing, think about whether any of those make sense to you.

Someone who can provide (financially)

This one is interesting, it goes back to what we’ve talked about in part 2 but we’ve looked at it from the beliefs of men. Now you’ll often hear girls on videos say ‘I want a man earning six figures. In Europe the women are a lot more humble in that regard.

Let me debunk it right away. I have personally seen jobless men date women and the woman took care of them. Put aside the life situation, I’ve seen girls take in brokies and very depressed people to their hearts. And afterwards those men managed to get up and achieved a lot, some of them created families with those women.

Hidden wisdom: One of our seduction community’s points of wisdom was that the women are significantly more about your potential than what your currently have. If you have the potential to be the next millionaire and the woman sees it in you, she can stay.

A lot of famous millionaires also had this situation when they were broke and their woman stayed with them. It was their ambition and drive, that’s attractive.

Of course you don’t have to be a millionaire just be honest with yourself and go towards YOUR goals. The women will fill it. That’s why women don’t particularly like truly lazy people.

If you’re dream is to have some non-profit that will change the world and you put your 100% attention in to it. Trust me, women will start to appear in your life magically.

A Man That Will Treat Her Right

This one is cliche. It has some truth to it but not in that meaning that the women saying this phrase usually mean. E.g: being like a gentleman, buying gifts and flowers and so on.

You’ve probably seen it too. Often times women end up with a ‘Bad Boy’ who can treat them badly, and that fellow which could’ve treated them right has been rejected. (Remember Joe from part 1? )

So we can disregard that one. The issue is that when it comes to what people think they want it’s not always clear to them.

A Handsome Guy

Many girls say they want a ripped handsome guy. But if you’ve been around the block for long enough you’ll see a lot of girls date average looking guys. Looks are secondary to women, for evolutionary reasons. Looks do help, but a woman is much more likely to date an average guy that makes her feel amazing than an ultra handsome guy that just doesn’t have the spark. There are plenty of lonely good looking men out there who don’t get laid.

Go to the depths of the mountains in Siberia where you will meet Boris. Boris weighs 100 stones yet his Russian wife is light as a feather and looks like a fallen angel. The looks is the last thing that you should worry about.

A Nice Friendly Person

Being nice is not really a factor, and most of the nice guys get rejected due to lack of attraction. You can be nice and attractive however, I’d say 97% of nice people who are acting nice towards a girl are just faking it. If you’re being nice to her just because you want to get in her pants, you’re not really nice, you’re just a dumbass using an outdated mating strategy.

Many say ‘stop being nice’, ‘be an asshole’, ‘etc’. That may help getting some emotional waves which is better than a flat attractionless interaction, but that’s a childish approach. You should know what you’re doing when you’re seducing a girl.

A Feminist Supporter

This one is quite funny. There are woman saying “I want a man who supports feminism/woman empowerment”. First of all, what do these women expect out their feminist supporter man. To go with them on a strike? To encourage her “Yeah you go girl!”. Maybe to go to her to her company and together demand equality of pay?

Nonseense.

Most women who say they’re a feminist don’t really know what that means even especially in the eastern part. A man trying to please a woman by being a feminist will negatively affect his attraction, cause essentially he’s licking her ass and bending over, again in hopes of getting her. Women feel this manipulative behavior.

Not so long ago one right winged friend of mine was dating a feminist. She actually asked him what he thinks of feminism. He said he thinks it’s bullshit, only works in a utopia. She didn’t like that. But she still fucked him. They dated for a year and then broke up. He was true to his beliefs and got rewarded. If he were to bend down she’d never accept him.

I also had this situation where a girl I met asked me if I support women’s rights. I said sure, I don’t mind it. That pissed her off, but it’s true. I don’t mind equality, if a woman can provide the same output in a business as a man. But she expected me to be all “Yeah I support! Sure”. We had sex and dated. That topic never came again, because as it turned out she’s not even a feminist, she preferred to be a stay at home traditional girl.

So What Do Women Really Want

The short answer is: a man that makes them feel

You may ask me, what does that mean? Feel what? It’s funny to describe it.

They want to feel: safe , loved, sexy, comfortable, happy, joyful.

They also want to feel: attached , inspired, submissive..

Feel is the keyword. It’s your job as a man to provide their feelings. You’ll notice that all of those are within her. You have to find ways to make her feel like this. The good news is that you can. And without spending a dime. Things like confidence, pheromones, charisma, being authentic and interesting help much more than a big bank account.

-> A big bank account indirectly helps by allowing you to get more confidence and more amazing life experiences.

Remember, the soul care not for material things, it’s cares about the adventure of life.