Welcome to part two in this series I call Everything Know About Women Isn’t True. If you haven’t read already the first part, I highly suggest you do. Here’s a link

Just a quick recap for all the people who forgot. We’ve discussed core false beliefs men have about women that sabotage their mindset when it comes to pursuing a mate.

• * You must be tall and handsome
• * You must have a lot of money
• * Women only have sex to please men
• * Love is determined by fate

I’ve discussed this with a friend of mine who’s into the menosphere comedy online he said each one of those rem

Today let’s discuss something interesting. Something which deep down society knows is true but is also something that if you say out loud you’ll get lashed out for it.

The Truth Women Tell You

Right off the bad, let me tell you. Most women will bullshit most average guys and even unintentionally half bullshit guys they like,

Essentially women follow how they feel and later rationalize a lot of the stuff as if it was the truth.

“Why do I feel like this.. hmmm”

“Oh it much be this and that..” – they map it into some rational reason and that’s the truth.

But Tracer, why’s that important?

Glad you asked . The thing is that this bullshit they feed men isn’t helping anyone, and it’s more damaging to the women themselves, later claiming men can’t understand women. Well sure you’ve fed him some bullshit info you felt in the moment and he thinks it’ reflect you as a person. To understand this better and why it’s important we’ll look at some exmaples.

Examples of these situation

1. Why Did You Reject Joe?

This is by far the most common manifestation of this phenomenon. Let’s say for example a guy named Joe goes up to a woman named Beth and wants to get to know her. They chat for a little bit the conversation is flowing and they even exchanged contacts.

After four days Joe has invited Beth out and they went. Their date went well. Only for Joe to get a message the next day saying

“Hi Joe I’m sorry but I just don’t think we should see each other anymore..”

“Why?? Did I do something wrong?”

“No no, it’s just that I realised.. that we don’t match .”

And Joe thinks either that he’s not good enough, only later to realise that the reason why she dumped him was because he made that one joke about jokes that was sensitive to Beth. Because he dog has passed away 3 weeks ago. But Joe didn’t know that.

Beth just felt something after Joe’s joke. Not properly analysed, the reason conjured up is a very crude. “I feel not good, Joe is here, before Joe was here the vibe was good.. so Joe’s the reason!”. T

During our seminars in the seduction group often times we’d get at least 7 stories like that: Beth left Joe and told some reason.

In truth there’s only one reason: She left him cause she felt like that. That’s it, unconsciously she felt something, and rationalized it based on her own belief system.

Let’s look at another one.

2. I Never Wanna Get Married / Be In A Relationship

This is a fun one. Actually one friend of mine that recently got divorced told me about this. There was a female colleague of his. She often told him she never want to get married. She said she values being free, and thinks marriage is so old fashioned.

She gave him very strong arguments as to why not. She’s a financially independent woman also owns a restaurant. so he believed her.

Yet magically she got engaged one month after that conversation. Lol, my man felt lost he asked her if she lied to him. She replied “it just felt right”.

And yeah, always if you meet a girl who says for example she doesn’t want a relationship, more often than not if she’s attractive, a man who can make her feel that way will come.

Attention: Due to such things, a lot of men just give up on the woman. Thinking “ah if she’s not into that, why bother inviting her out”. Congrats, you may have been that guy who could’ve given her that falling in love experience. But you believe that what she said in the moment was her truth.

Realize also that most people today don’t actually understand their own feelings, the level of self awareness is at an all time low! Both men and women.

Of course you don’t have to be pushy or anything, you can respect the woman’s choice. But nothing is stopping you for inviting her out to hang out. Later magic may happen. and actually a lot of the times it’s like that. Women don’t have love at first sight as often as men.

Be honest with yourself, invite her out. No pressure. If you’re worried you can ask her if she ever felt she’s one thing and then some other day she completely behaved in a totally different way. You’ll be amazed of the answers, you’ll find out that women are very flexible in terms of their rules.

This also goes for one night stands and kissing on a first date.

I had a few situations like this where I met the “I don’t kiss on the first date” kind of girls. Only to end that date making out with them. In one instance I even remember the girl say “You know it’s strange.. I never kiss on the first day”. Funnily she told this to me this before, that she never kisses on the first date.

Flexibility, maybe if other guys would’ve been open minded they may have kissed her too. If they ever existed (this is mostly a stay-at-home girl). But the thing is:

If you adopt that limited belief “Ok kissing on the first date never happens” you’re blocking yourselves out! And what if she changes her mind and wants to kiss you? But that won’t happen because you’ve locked yourself out. Even if you’ve got seduction skills, believing the girl is like that will just make it harder for you.

I just remembered a better one. One female friend of mine went on a date with one guy. Before the date she repeated to him 3 times “nothing will happen”. Only to later tell me “You know Tracer, if he would’ve initiated, I wouldn’t mind it.. I liked him.. I even gave him some signals I was in the mood!”

Obviously most women don’t say it directly. And unfortunately men read body language worse than women.

“But he respected her choice!” – You’ll hear keyboard warriors yell!

Sure, but she later rejected him only for that reason

“I need someone more proactive who can take the lead.. a man who understands my feelings” and now the keyboard warriors will call this man a simp. While in fact he didn’t do anything bad, just also nothing good.

3. Bonus – I Only Date ______

I only date Asians, rich people, blah blah. I think I’ll debunk this one without much examples. You’ll often see girls who say the want to date someone fit, dating someone with an average body or even a beer belly. Someone who says they’ll never date someone younger suddenly date someone 3 years younger. And so on.

Girl often date someone who wasn’t their type. This also applies to men by the way. I myself in the past have thought I’d never date someone from Asia (just not my type). Well I did, somehow it just happened, fortunately my belief did not stop those women from pursuing me.

Be open minded about that. Remember, from part 1, many people believe love is fate. If it’s really fate then her type doesn’t really play a role. Fate is something that’s determined by external forces beyond man’s understanding.

How To Get The Truth

Experience with women will get you better chances to get the truth. Also if you’re closer to the girl (a.k.a: You two are dating), she will do her to give you an honest answer.

I often enjoyed asking my girlfriends the question “why do you like me?”. After we’ve had sex already I always assume I’ll get an honest answer.

Sometimes I’d get because of looks, sometimes because of personality, sometimes because of my stubborness and so on. “It’s because you’re like this xyz”. And sometimes I’d get “You know, I really don’t know..” – That’s a decent honest answer. The ultimate truth though is because “You just make me feel that way”.

Feelings have their own reasons, and the reasons can be very very comlex, that’s another topic though.

Anyway I’ve mentioned experience with women gets you the truth. Let me elaborate on that:

• Reading body language – Gets you closer to the truth.
• Emotional intellegence – Gets you closer to the truth.
• Knowing yourself/being authentic – Gets you closer to the truth.
• Being able to make a woman feel safe – Gets you miles closer to the truth.

And this truth can related to whatever feelings’ topic you may think of.

Let’s Summerise

Don’t just take at face value everything a woman says when it comes to feelings. Her current feeling do not determine her personality or her desires, only the current moment.

Be open minded and don’t close yourself off with limiting beliefs.